Angry? Hate your boss? Hung over?
Lonely? Many of the 1 billion people on Facebook and 500 million active Twitter
users are all of these and more.
And they don’t think twice about
telling the world. Anyone who visits social media sites sees it every day: the
constant chatter about everything from what people ate for breakfast to who
hooked up last night to how the job’s going. On dating sites, users describe
themselves in intimate, sometimes exaggerated detail or post risqué photos as
they search for companionship.
We just can’t stop talking about
ourselves.
“There are a lot of things people will say
under the guise of electronic media that they wouldn’t say in person,” says Ben
Agger, a professor of sociology and humanities and director of UT Arlington’s Center
for Theory. “People
may reveal more about themselves when they type instead of talk.
Self-revelation becomes routine when you can’t see someone’s eyes. No one
blushes or holds back.”
Ben
Agger
That
willingness is the topic of Dr. Agger’s book Oversharing: Presentations of
Self in the Internet Age (2012, Routledge). He uses pornography as a
metaphor for what’s happening. Matters that used to be private, both sexual and
nonsexual, now commonly appear in public. This oversharing, he says, creates a
“pornographic public sphere” where everyone tells all, but few connect.
“The
Internet is a breeding ground of grandiosity as people crow about themselves
and express their opinions,” Agger writes. “It also breeds the search for
intimacy, even if this is electronic and not face to face.”
FAULTY CONNECTIONS
Agger
calls oversharing a product of the search for connection. Unfortunately,
electronic connections are often “flimsy and largely unfulfilling” and rarely
lead to real relationships, or what he calls community.
Agger is
no Internet-hating Luddite. As he sipped coffee at a Starbucks near UT
Arlington, he had a smartphone at hand, which he used periodically for texts
involving family matters. Send him an email and you’ll probably get a response
in a half-hour or less.
But he
does call for moderation, especially among young people. He believes public
discourse is declining as society, or at least the online segment, is more
interested in gossip and day-to-day minutiae than real issues. Even in news
coverage, the many online blogger/reporters make it easy to mistake opinion for
fact.
“It is
good that everyone wants to be part of the conversation, but they need to be
studious and analytical. And the conversation, as I’m calling it, needs to be
about important matters.”
Whether
you jeopardize your job by criticizing your boss in the conversation ultimately
may be decided by the courts. Meanwhile, plenty of people post photos of
themselves in compromising situations or complain about work without a thought
to career implications.
News
reports are full of cases where people were disciplined or lost their jobs over
Facebook.
A teacher
in Georgia says she was forced to resign after her bosses saw an expletive on
her Facebook page and photos of her holding beer and wine. Employees for an
airline were disciplined after they joked on Facebook that their planes were
crawling with cockroaches. A New England Patriots cheerleader was fired because
she posted photos on Facebook of a boy who passed out and then was covered with
graffiti, some of it anti-Semitic, by pranksters.
Tales of
employer snooping are widespread. The National Labor Relations Board sees so
many social media-related cases that it has put out three reports in the past
year covering various incidents and addressing workplace policies. Earlier this
year, U.S. Rep. Eliot Engel of New York introduced a bill that would prohibit employers
from requiring or requesting that employees provide user names and passwords to
their social networking sites.
The surge
in employment-related situations prompted the UT Arlington Career Center to create a workshop, Managing Your
Digital Dirt, to educate students about the pitfalls of a reckless online
presence. Career Center staff members conduct the seminar for campus groups.
University College features the workshop as part of its Success Series, a suite
of programs to aid students at various levels of their academic careers,
including those students nearing graduation.
“Students
need to understand that what happens in the fun of college life may not
necessarily stay in what they categorize as college life,” University
College Executive
Director Dawn Remmers says. “Their cyber-tracks can follow them to the
workplace, and employers can make judgments about potential employees based on
those fragments floating in cyberspace.”
POST WITH CAUTION
A 2012
CareerBuilder survey found that 37 percent of companies use social networking
sites to research job candidates. Managers at a third of those businesses said
they’ve discovered information that caused them not to hire a candidate,
including inappropriate photos, discriminatory comments, and posts bad-mouthing
previous employers.
As vice
president of Marshall Career Service, Jim Ashworth ’73 places senior-level
accounting and financial professionals with major corporations in North Texas.
High-ranking executives aren’t exempt from bonehead mistakes, he says, citing
one who posted a graphic handbook (with photos) about sexual positions.
But
employers don’t browse online profiles just to dig up dirt. Almost 30 percent
of managers in the CareerBuilder survey said they’ve hired candidates because
of things they saw on Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIn. Darren Nelson ’07, ’08,
director of recruiting for Dr Pepper Snapple Group, says his company
discourages the use of anything other than candidate résumés, interviews, and
references in making hiring decisions. But he understands why some corporations
Google their top prospects.
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